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Six half used candle fragrance oils, can any of them go into reed diffusers?

I put candle fragrance oil in an ultrasonic diffuser once because a blog said it was fine. It threw a milky mist for ten minutes, then stopped misting, and the tank had a sticky film no amount of vinegar would shift. The unit cost about as much as a takeaway so it was a cheap lesson, but the smell stayed in the plastic for months and the next thing I put through it came out smelling of the fragrance. Do not test this on the one you like.

57 · in/candlemaking ·

Day 9 starter went from thick to soup and never came back, feed through it or start over?

This is the most predictable arc in the hobby and almost nobody warns you about it. That spectacular day-three activity usually isn't the culture you want: it's other bacteria having a party on fresh flour, and they die back as things get acidic, which is why day 6 to 9 looks like a graveyard. The actual yeast and lactic bacteria you're building establish afterwards, and at 26C you should see them somewhere between day 10 and day 16. Feed twice a day now rather than once, and go stiffer while you're at it - around 70 to 80% hydration gives you something whose rise you can actually see.

172 · in/wild-yeast ·

Six weeks old, smells lovely, never doubles: what finally woke yours up?

Temperature, and it isn't close. At 19C a starter is alive but working at a fraction of the speed, and by the time it would have peaked you've already fed it again and reset the clock. Mine did exactly your 30%-and-stall in a cold flat and doubled reliably the week I started putting the jar in the oven with just the light on, which sits around 25 to 27C in my oven - check yours with a thermometer because some run much hotter. Nothing else changed: same flour, same ratio, same jar.

148 · in/wild-yeast ·

First solo trip is Japan with zero Japanese, what actually catches people out?

Eating alone is the least of your problems there, counter seating is the default in a huge number of places, plenty of restaurants take your order through a vending machine before you sit down, and nobody registers a solo diner as unusual. The two things that caught me out were cash and luggage. Small places, shrine offices and some rural stations still want physical yen, so don't let your wallet run dry on a Sunday, and dragging a big suitcase between cities on trains is miserable - send it ahead with a luggage forwarding service from your hotel front desk and travel with a day bag.

166 · in/solo-travel ·

Adjustable dumbbells to 24 kg and a bench in a spare room - how far can that actually take me?

It caps out much later than you think if you stop trying to replicate barbell movements and start using the tools that make a light weight heavy.

Unilateral first. A rear foot elevated split squat with 24s in each hand is a genuinely hard set for most people who can back squat a bar. Then single leg RDLs, step-ups to a real height, and B-stance hip thrusts on the bench.

Then the variables that are not load: tempo with a three second lowering phase, pauses at the bottom, one and a half reps, and shortening rest periods. A ten rep set at a normal tempo and a ten rep set with three second eccentrics and a two second pause are not the same set.

My hinge stalled first, which is the honest weak point of dumbbell training, and I fixed it with single leg work and a band rather than by finding heavier dumbbells.

209 · in/womens-lifting ·

Eight months of a second income and my savings has moved $600

Mine went on convenience across the board, not one line item. Cleaner, delivery, taxis instead of the bus when I was running late between shifts, buying things twice because I couldn't find the first one. None of it looked like splurging on any single day.

I'd say track four weeks before you change anything. You can't fix a category you can't name.

57 · in/two-jobs ·

Bars from last winter have orange freckles, how long does homemade soap actually keep?

I track my batches on index cards and the pattern is consistent enough to be useful. My coconut, palm and olive bars are unremarkable at two years in a cupboard. Anything with a meaningful proportion of sunflower or the high linoleic oils starts showing something in the nine to fifteen month range unless I chelate. Nothing has ever spotted before six months. The variable that predicts it best in my notes is not the recipe, it is where the box was stored, and the garage batches always went first.

82 · in/cold-process ·

Is a pinch of instant yeast in a sourdough loaf cheating, or just a Tuesday?

I bake hybrid loaves on weeknights and have done for years: full levain for flavour plus about 0.2 to 0.3% instant yeast on flour weight, which is a genuinely tiny amount - under a gram in a 500g flour dough. The loaf is milder, the sourness that develops over a long bulk simply doesn't have time to appear, and the crumb is slightly more uniform. It is a good loaf that is obviously not my weekend loaf. Plenty of bakeries do exactly this, they just don't put it on the sign.

127 · in/wild-yeast ·