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Mix it myself for the tenth time or pay someone - where does hiring out actually pay off?

Third option and the one I would pick in your shoes. Two bass traps in the corners changed my mixes more than any plugin or any single piece of advice, because I stopped guessing about the low end. The reason your mixes never feel finished may be that you cannot hear the bottom two octaves in that room and you are making decisions blind. Treatment is also the only one of your three options that keeps paying on every song forever.

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Moved cities for a masters and my whole social life is four people from my cohort, is that just how it is

Year one of a taught masters is the worst it gets, partly because everyone is still working out whether they will still be here next year. Things changed for me when I started teaching, because the other teaching assistants are a natural cross departmental group who all have the same complaints at the same time. If your programme has any teaching, demonstrating or lab support going, take it for the social reasons even if the money is bad.

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Cheap monitor screams VOC every evening - is that number measuring anything real?

I ended up buying a proper infrared CO2 unit to sit next to the cheap one, mostly out of curiosity. Particulate readings tracked each other reasonably. The CO2 lines had almost no relationship - the estimated one responded to cooking and cleaning products, the real one responded to how many people were in the room and whether a window was open, which is what you actually want to know.

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Everyone says just practise, practise what, exactly? What did you actually drill?

Disagreeing with the drill framing. I spent a year running mental checklists and became noticeably worse, because the attention I was spending on the checklist was attention I was not spending on the person, and people can tell. What actually moved it was volume of genuinely low-stakes contact with no goal attached: the same barista, the same neighbours, no technique in mind. Drills for a week to notice a habit is fine. Drills as an ongoing practice made me a worse conversationalist and a more anxious one.

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