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Did overpaying your mortgage feel worth it, or do you wish you had kept the cash?

Overpaid for six years and would do it again, with one change: I would have built the emergency fund first and completely. The year I lost a contract, I had a smaller mortgage and no accessible money, and I ended up putting three months of living costs on a credit card at a rate that made the whole exercise look silly. The maths on overpaying is sound and it is the wrong first move if the buffer is not already there.

341 · in/rent-vs-buy ·

Bands, a doorway bar and two 12kg dumbbells in a rental, how far does that actually take a beginner

Legs stall first and it is not close. Upper body has a long runway with that kit because a pull up bar plus 12s covers rows, presses, curls and you can keep making pull ups harder for a couple of years by adding reps then adding pauses then adding a backpack. Lower body runs out fast because a double 12kg goblet squat stops being hard within a few months. The fix is unilateral: Bulgarian split squats with the back foot on a chair, step ups onto something knee height, single leg RDLs, and slow eccentric split squats. One leg at a time roughly doubles the effective load without buying anything, and the balance demand is genuinely useful for the not weak at fifty goal.

167 · in/strength-training ·

Easy Apply feels like a black hole, where are people finding roles that actually reply?

I tracked source-to-screen for four months because I was going mad. One-click applications: 140 sent, 3 screens. Applications direct through company sites: 46 sent, 9 screens. Roles found through a person: 11, 7 screens. Same resume throughout. Since then I use the big platform purely as a listings index and never apply inside it, and I stopped applying to anything more than about five days old.

241 · in/job-search ·

I want the bar numbers up and to look like I lift, do I actually have to pick a rep range

Going to be the unwelcome answer: if you have added weight to the bar for eighteen months and the mirror has not moved, the rep range is probably not your problem, your food is. Muscle is built out of a calorie surplus and enough protein, and plenty of people run a perfectly good hypertrophy block while eating at maintenance and conclude the programme failed. Track what you actually eat for two weeks before you rewrite the training, because if you are not gaining any weight at all, no rep scheme is going to fix that.

134 · in/strength-training ·

Every do not disturb mode is on and I still pick up my phone eighty times a day, what is left to block

I bought a cheap kitchen timer safe, the kind with a lid that locks for a set number of minutes, because I felt ridiculous but had run out of ideas. Pickups on working days went from somewhere in the eighties down to the teens within two weeks, and the teens were mostly at lunch. The unexpected part was how uncomfortable the first three days were, which told me more about the habit than the numbers did. It was not that I needed the phone, it was that I needed somewhere to put the boredom.

108 · in/focus-systems ·

Logging 1800 calories a day but the scale has not moved in three weeks

The weekday qualifier in your post is where I would look first. Two weekend days eaten freely can easily be 1500 calories above a weekday, which spread across seven days moves your real average by 400 or so, and that is usually the whole deficit.

Second place to look is the things people do not weigh. Cooking oil is around 120 calories a tablespoon and gets poured by eye, nut butters are dense and get scooped, and dressings, milk in coffee and the bits eaten while cooking never make it into the app. Weighing oil for one week is unpleasant and extremely informative.

If after a properly logged fortnight, weekends included, nothing has changed, then your maintenance is genuinely lower than you assumed and you adjust the number.

468 · in/macros ·

Half marathon in fourteen weeks, will two lifting sessions help my time or just leave my legs flat on Sunday

For scale: I kept two forty minute sessions through a fourteen week build at roughly your volume, and the honest summary is my legs felt better on hills, my form held together in the last five kilometres, and my time improved by a couple of minutes. I cannot separate how much of that was the lifting and how much was another block of consistent running. What I can say is that nothing got worse once the scheduling was right, and the niggles I usually collect around week ten did not show up.

88 · in/strength-training ·

Brought a forged carbon knife home from a market stall abroad, is it worth rehandling or should I have bought a known brand

Test the blade before you commit any hours, because the handle work is the expensive part in time and the blade decides everything. Sharpen it properly, then use it for a full week of normal cooking including a couple of sessions on hard vegetables, and see whether the edge is still biting on day seven or has rolled by day two. A soft blade will feel wonderful on the stones, because soft steel sharpens beautifully, and then fold the moment it meets a squash. If it holds a week of home use, it is a good knife and worth rehandling.

168 · in/knives-and-cookware ·

Tidy rows of veg or a mixed kitchen garden with herbs and flowers, which one were you still weeding in year three

I have run both on the same site, rows for four years and then a mixed layout for five. The mixed one takes noticeably more thought at planting and noticeably less weeding by midsummer, because the ground is covered and there is nowhere for weeds to establish. What it costs you is harvesting speed and clarity, you cannot walk down a bed pulling one crop, and you will forget what you planted where unless you write it down. For someone with an hour on a weekday evening rather than a whole Saturday, the mixed bed won.

158 · in/kitchen-garden ·

Which espresso machines are still repairable in ten years, rather than sealed shut?

The property you are looking for is a standard group head. Machines built around a common commercial group have parts available essentially forever because the same gaskets and screens fit hundreds of café machines, and any tech can work on them. Machines with a proprietary brew unit are a bet on one manufacturer's spares policy. That single question, standard group or proprietary unit, sorts the market better than price does.

298 · in/coffee-gear ·