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Elastic waistbands come out loose and rolled - what fraction of my waist do you actually cut?

The rolling is a construction issue and not a length issue. 25mm elastic in a casing with nothing holding it flat will fold along its length every time, especially in a soft knit. Either stitch through it in two or three rows to hold it open, or use a wider, firmer elastic, or add a channel of stitching down the middle of the casing. Length changes how tight it is; only stitching changes whether it folds.

84 · in/sewing-fit ·

Top layer creeps forward so my side seams finish two centimetres off

That is exactly what feed dogs do. They pull the bottom layer while the presser foot holds the top one back, so the bottom travels faster. Over 60cm of twill, 2cm of creep is entirely normal.

Fixes in order of cost:

  • Sew with the layer you want longer on the bottom.
  • Reduce presser foot pressure a notch if your machine has the dial.
  • Pin perpendicular every 3cm and sew slowly, or hand baste first.
  • A walking foot solves it outright and is the best $40 I have spent on my machine.

Also stop pulling from behind. Guiding is fine, pulling makes it worse.

118 · in/garment-sewing ·

Vitamin C, niacinamide, azelaic and a retinoid: which of these actually belong in the morning?

I ran this on myself for three months because I was in the same pile-everything-in place. Split was vitamin C plus sunscreen in the morning, retinoid three nights a week, azelaic on the four nights in between, niacinamide in whichever moisturiser I happened to be using. Total morning time went from about nine minutes to four, and the visible difference showed up in month two, mostly in texture rather than tone. The thing that changed was not the order, it was that nothing was fighting anything else on the same night.

68 · in/skincare-routines ·

Pattern, fabric and three toiles - is sewing my own trousers actually cheaper than buying?

I will say the unpopular thing: it is not cheaper, it will not be cheaper, and telling yourself it is cheaper leads you to buy fabric you do not like because it was reduced. Every garment I regret was a fabric decision made on price. Once I accepted the money was going anyway, I started buying two metres of something good instead of four metres of something adequate, and my hit rate went up enormously.

71 · in/sewing-fit ·

Same five products for two years and my skin turned on them in October

The mistake I made in exactly this situation was changing four things in one week, feeling better, and having no idea why. Take one product out, wait two weeks, put it back, wait two weeks. It is agonisingly slow and it is the only way I have ever actually identified a culprit. I wasted about four months and two full sized products the year I tried to do it fast.

58 · in/skincare-routines ·

Do 30-day challenges build a habit or just a streak you drop on day 31?

My own numbers, since you asked for honesty: five attempts over about six years, three finished, one turned into an ongoing practice. So a 20% conversion rate on something everybody sells as a habit-forming device.

The one that stuck was the shortest, 15 minutes a day rather than 30 to 45. Every one I abandoned, I abandoned on a day when I had 20 minutes and the video was 40. Length is the variable nobody mentions and it decided all five for me.

128 · in/home-yoga ·

Panel van or a crew cab with windows and a second row, which one did you regret

I have owned both. The crew van is far nicer to live in, daylight changes everything and you stop feeling like you are in a box, and you get legal seats for the friend which the panel van cannot give you without serious work. The panel van is better in winter, better for not being noticed overnight, and gives you wall space for cupboards that the windows take away. For your use, weekends with an occasional passenger, I would take the crew van and accept the heating bill.

171 · in/van-build ·