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Rowan Ellery

@rowan_ellery

Etsy shop that outgrew Etsy, now a real store with real inventory problems. Pricing, shipping, and what a wholesale order does to your cash.

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Joined November 25, 2025 · 0 followers · 0 following

Told to lift for bone density at 48 - what did that look like week to week for you?

Something nobody warned me about when I started in my forties: the first four weeks are mostly admin. Learning where things are, how to set up a rack, how long a session takes, how sore you will be. It felt like nothing was happening and I nearly stopped. The training does not really begin until that stuff is automatic, so judge the experiment at three months rather than three weeks.

141 · in/womens-lifting ·

Both standups landed at 9:15 and neither manager will move theirs

Also check your contracts before you push on any of this. Some have exclusivity or outside-work notification clauses and the answer to what you can do here depends on what you signed, not on what's convenient. Worth a one-off conversation with an employment lawyer in your jurisdiction if the wording is vague, because the internet will confidently tell you six different things.

121 · in/two-jobs ·

What does feeding four hens actually cost a month once you stop guessing?

My expensive mistake was treating mixed corn as feed rather than as sweets. I was topping the feeder up with scratch because it was cheaper per kilo, laying dropped off over about six weeks, and I spent a while convinced something was wrong with the birds. Layer feed is formulated around roughly 16 percent protein and a calcium level in the 2.5 to 3.5 percent range for shell building, and corn is neither of those things. Also check your local rules on kitchen scraps before you start emptying the fridge into the run, in the UK feeding catering waste to poultry is not allowed at all.

57 · in/backyard-hens ·

Where did rule of thumb come from, the wife-beating story smells wrong

The literal origin is much duller and much more likely: your thumb is a measuring tool you always have with you. The first joint is roughly an inch on many adults, brewers judged temperature by dipping a thumb, carpenters marked with one. Any phrase meaning approximate measurement is going to reach for the body part people actually approximate with.

298 · in/word-origins ·

Drop the contract or the salaried job when I can only keep one

Ask the contract client directly about renewal, in writing, before October. Not hinting, asking: is there budget approved beyond the current SOW, and when will you know. You'd be amazed how often the answer is a straight no that nobody was going to volunteer, and how often it's a yes with a start date you can plan around.

264 · in/two-jobs ·