Two other things worth having on the shelf before batch two. Nutrients added in stages over the first few days rather than all at the start, which most mead makers work from a schedule for. And gentle degassing in the early days, which a lot of people find takes some pressure off the yeast.
On the safety question, since people ask: a hot harsh mead is a quality fault rather than spoilage. It is unpleasant, not unsafe. Back-sweetening after stabilising or blending it into a smoother batch are the other two routes if aging only gets it halfway.