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One client, forty hours a week, their standups and their laptop - am I a contractor in name only?

Price it properly and a lot of the discomfort resolves itself. My rule for a full-time-shaped engagement is that the day rate has to cover the holiday I am not paid for, the sick days, the pension nobody is contributing to, the accountant, insurance and roughly six to eight weeks a year of no work between contracts. When I actually did that arithmetic, the rate I needed was well above what a salary for the same role would look like, and that gap is the whole reason to be a contractor. If your rate does not reflect it, you have taken an employment risk profile at a freelance price.

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Moth holes in fine merino keep unravelling wider while I try to mend them

Stabilise first, always. Get the jumper flat and dry, then run a line of small running stitches in a fine matching thread in a square around each hole, about 5-6mm out from the edge, catching every loop as you go. That fence stops the knit from running while you work. Only then start the actual repair. On fine gauge merino I'd then do a duplicate stitch repair rather than a woven darn, following the path of the original stitches with a single strand of matching wool, so the mend disappears rather than sits on top.

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New septic tank is going in 55 feet from our well and the installer says that is fine

Do a baseline test before he digs and keep the paperwork. EPA guidance for private wells is to test annually for total coliform, nitrate, total dissolved solids and pH, so that is your minimum panel, and nitrate is the one I would care about with a toddler in the house. A basic lab panel is not expensive. Then retest a month after the system is commissioned and again at the first spring thaw. If something ever goes wrong you will want a dated clean result from before the work.

118 · in/well-and-septic ·

Started a new job in March and the health plan is worse than my old one, can I change anything before open enrolment?

Ask HR for the summary plan description rather than the glossy benefits PDF. The SPD is the document that actually states the rules on mid-year changes, and it is the one that answers the questions the benefits portal is vague about. When I did this I found my employer allowed a change on a spouse's employment change that nobody in HR mentioned in conversation, because the person I asked was reading the same brochure I was.

152 · in/insurance-choices ·

Two years self taught and still fighting the same shoulder and bust fit, is a paid class worth it or is that money better spent on fabric

I paid for a two day fitting course in 2023 and I would do it again, but I want to be honest about what it did. It did not teach me to fit, it taught me what a good fit feels like on my own body, which I had genuinely never experienced. Everything after that was me making the adjustments myself with a reference point I did not have before. If you go in expecting a technique you will be disappointed, and if you go in for the reference point it is worth every penny.

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Darned sock heel keeps forming a hard lump that blisters my foot

For heels specifically I've switched to swiss darning over the thin area before it becomes a hole, and I only weave when there's an actual gap. Duplicate stitch follows the knit so it stretches with the sock and you basically can't feel it. Needs catching early, which is annoying advice for a sock that's already got a hole.

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