So me and my bf were talking about intimacy and how were both asexual but the only person that ever made him feel otherwise was his ex. he said "Usually when I’m REALLY down there in the bad places in my head I go back…
We ended it in March, mutually, no betrayal, just the same argument for two years. I moved flats, I see friends twice a week, I am fine at work. Then I look at her account most nights and lose the evening. For people…
We are both fine with the idea of talking to someone. We are not fine with committing to an open ended weekly bill when nobody will tell us how many sessions this normally takes. Every practice website says contact us…
We're viewing flats next month. He earns roughly double what I do and has quietly covered more than half of everything for a year, which I've never asked about and he's never mentioned. I can afford a 50/50 split on…
Different people, same shape. Six good months, then I start finding them irritating over small things, then I go quiet and busy until they end it, and I feel relieved for a fortnight and awful after. I am 33 and I would…
It's the same three jokes about me being the spreadsheet one, and they only come out when we're with other people. Individually each one is nothing, which is why I've never said anything, and now it's been about a year.…
Roughly the last eight things we arranged, six were cancelled by them somewhere between three hours and twenty minutes before. Always a real sounding reason, always apologetic, always a suggestion to reschedule. I've…
We've been in the flat eight months. His mum has a key from before we moved in together and uses it, usually mid morning, sometimes when I'm working from home in pyjamas. He genuinely doesn't understand why it bothers…
Fourteen months in and the constant thinking about them feeling has largely gone. Nothing is wrong. We're good together, no fights, still enjoy each other. But I notice I'm not counting hours until I see them, and I…